Tuesday, February 17, 2009

butterfly lovers (the 2008 version)




It's been a while since I actually wrote about an asian drama, so here goes! One of China's most famous legends is that of the "butterfly lovers". A young lady, with an unusual scholarly bent and, even more surprisingly, parent permission, dresses up as a man in order to go to boarding school. Zhu Yingtai is a pretty rich lady, so being able to do this in those times is pretty amazing. While there, she becomes best friends with her roommate, Liang Shanbo, who is one of those scholar type folk who only lives for learning and knowledge. You know, the kind without street-smarts. And in this case, the kind without cash. But he has She falls in love with him, and tries to subtly reveal her identity to him, but he's pretty dense, and doesn't get it. Meanwhile, her parents set up a marriage to a man of their caste - Ma Wencai - and pull her out of school to become a proper housewife. As she leaves, Shanbo finally figures out that his roomie is a girl, and that he is madly in love with her, and decides to follow her home.

Yingtai arrives home, but locks herself in her room rather than marry Wencai. Shanbo ends up dying at Yingtai's hometown (I can't remember how). The girl is devastated, and agrees to marry Wencai - on the condition that she gets to visit her lover's grave on the way to the temple. Her parents agree, and the procession starts. At the gravesite, however, something astonishing happens - Yingtai is swallowed up by the earth, and is never seen again. Two butterflies fly away together...

The star-crossed lovers story is really popular, and there's been a gazillion adaptations of the story. I was really excited about this one, because it stars some well-known Chinese/Taiwanese actors/actresses. Yingtai is played by Charlene Choi (Ah Sa) of the HK band Twins, Wencai is played by the handsome Huge, and best of all, Shanbo is played by Wu Chun of Fahrenheit - one of my favourite bands! AND the adaptation is a wuxia (martial arts) one. Can you say awesome?

But, unfortunately, the movie didn't live up to its hype. Ah Sa was a terrible boy - her scenes as a girl weren't too bad, but her boy scenes were so unrealistic - her voice was pitched too high, her mannerisms were very girly...the only guy-ish thing about her was her clothes. She even drew butterflies on things - if that's not girly, I don't know what else is. Huge and Wu Chun were much better as Wencai and Shanbo respectively - especially Huge, who ended up playing Wencai with the right amount of creepy insanity and fidelity (I know it sounds weird, but it makes sense when you watch it). That could have saved the movie, except that there was no character development. That combined with the Cantonese film technique of abruptly cutting away a scene into the next one, just made the movie very jerky and uninspired. I just didn't feel connected to the actors at all! Two things that were good in the film were the stunt sequences and the filmatography...but unfortunately that wasn't enough to save it.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Chance or Choice?

Happy Valentine's Day!

I was wandering around facebook, when I saw this post in a friend's profile. It's very appropriate for Valentine's day, so I thought I'd share :)

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When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place at the right time,
that's chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's chance.

Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice.
That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterwards.

Will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's
when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to turn this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his (or her) faults, that's not a chance.
That's choice.

When you choose to be with a person, no matter what,
that's choice.

Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, cuter and richer than him or her, and yet, you decide to love them just the same,
that's choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance.
But true love that lasts is truly a choice.
A choice that we make.

There's a beautiful quote that I believe is so true about this:
"Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."

We came to the world not to find someone perfect to love, BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly.

Friday, February 13, 2009

DWTS Season 8

The newest DWTS pairing is out! I'm so excited :)


(info from wikipedia)

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Abstract City

Today I stumbled on this bi-monthly column in the NYTimes by Christoph Niemann. As far as I can make out, every so often, he publishes several small creative artistic pieces that relate to random experiences and observations about his life in his city - once new york, now berlin. The mediums he uses are so great - they're simple and very everyday, but the points that he makes with them are so entertaining. They make you realize how wonderful creativity and imagination are.

His latest column, published Feb 2, 2009, takes lego pieces and transforms them into something else entirely. A couple of my favourites:

he also has this thing about the subway, as any true new yorker would. i think almost all his posts have touched upon the subway in some way shape or form. For example, he once wrote a whole column about how his family (sons really) were absolutely obsessed with the subway.

they're so crazy about it that he proposed retiling their bathroom to be a subway map.

what's more, he then went ahead and actually did it!

Monday, February 2, 2009

Climbing the Wall

I was getting my shoes ready for dance class today when I heard some noises coming from the back door (we live on the ground floor). I walk out, only to see a couple trying to climb the grill outside my parents' bedroom - apparently they locked themselves out of their apartment on the 2nd floor, and were desperately trying to find a way back in. We have a stepstool ladder that reaches about five feet - which is great and all when you're storing luggage, but is way too short for climbing up a storey!

But the couple managed to use it anyway - the guy climbed the ladder, while the girl climbed the grill, and together, they somehow managed to boost the lady up onto the tiled roof where she pulled herself to her window.

After all that effort, I didn't know how to tell them that I could have gotten them the number for the local locksmith.